I understand...I like to keep my friend's list low. I'm not good at friending a lot of people and can be terribly neglectful if it gets too large. And I agree on the hearth protector bit:-)

The friend's list has always confused me and I don't know how to rearrange them or if it's possible but if you find out I'd sure like to know.

sweet love to you...

I made the cut! I made the cut! Yeah! This is better than seeing your name in the phone book!

BTW - I clocked in at 54% evil BWAH HAH HAH! You are clearly much nicer than I am.

Good call - I've struggled with that myself. So far, I've added everyone who asked but I'm wondering...and Whisper has some good posts but he fills up my entire "recent activity" list all by himself every day - hiding everyone else's updates - jeez, someone has too much free time!

As for the list: the people that show up on the main page are set by your "favorite friends" list. I wish they were by traffic - I'd like that too. So I guess, yeah, you can, but you have to do it manually.

I have then also made a few categories on my total list - peole that post regularly (or sort of regularly) that I check on once in a while, and people on my list who haven't posted in over a month. Doesn't show up to others, but I can filter the list when I'm going through checking on people (which I haven't had much time to do lately)

Hey - want to come fold my laundry when you're done? I've got a few baskets to do myself-

I just did the same thing ... the friend list, not the laundry. :) I added the busy blogs as my 'best friends' so they are at the top of my list.

I'm so glad I'm still on your list. :)

I can't figure it out either. I drag them to where I want them, and when I go back to my site and look at my friends, they are still the same. If you get advice on how to do it, let me know.

Love,
Beth